

The problem with optimizing our lives (w/ Barry Schwartz and Coco Krumme)
298 snips Nov 7, 2023
Join psychologist Barry Schwartz, known for his insights on decision-making, and applied mathematician Coco Krumme, who explores cultural attitudes toward optimization, as they unpack the pitfalls of perfectionism. They discuss the psychological costs of optimizing every aspect of life and the tension between maximizing options and settling for 'good enough.' The conversation leads to reflections on meaningful choices and societal pressures, ultimately advocating for a balance between efficiency and happiness.
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Relative's Maximizing Struggle
- Barry Schwartz's relative struggles with maximizing, making decisions torturous.
- This personal experience highlighted the downsides of seeking the 'best,' as there often isn't one.
The Illusion of 'Best'
- Maximizing is often an illusion, as a true "best" rarely exists.
- This pursuit can lead to unnecessary stress and dissatisfaction.
Upbringing and Optimization
- Coco Krumme's upbringing, with engineer parents and exposure to the tech boom, influenced her view of optimization.
- While valuing personal growth, she felt uneasy about the constant pursuit of "bigger and better."