The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle 7 Tiny Habits That Make You Instantly Magnetic
Jan 6, 2026
Explore the concept of magnetism in social interactions, discovering that it stems from genuine self-settlement rather than charm. Learn practical tips like pausing to feel your feet and embracing silence instead of anxious chatter. Full-focus listening and authentic warmth enhance connections, while open body language signals steadiness. Anna emphasizes the power of genuine acknowledgment over flattery and urges clear communication for building trust. By practicing steadiness and maintaining boundaries, relationships can thrive in a safe space.
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Presence Beats Charm
- Magnetism comes from stopping anxious self-monitoring and being settled inside.
- That steadiness makes people feel safe and drawn to you.
Stop Managing The Moment
- Stop managing the moment and resist nodding or agreeing to be liked.
- Pause, feel your feet and allow silence so your presence registers.
Listen With Full Focus
- Use full-focus listening by letting go of your next sentence and actually hearing them.
- Listening fully calms others and reduces your overthinking about how you come across.