529- How to Handle Disappointing Grades: Why It’s Happening, How to Help
Nov 26, 2024
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Ann Dolin, a former special education teacher and founder of Educational Connections, shares insights on how disappointing grades can misrepresent a child's efforts, especially for those with ADHD. She discusses the common challenges students face and provides practical strategies for parents to assist their children effectively. Key topics include enhancing executive function skills, fostering open communication about academic struggles, and exploring interactive study techniques to improve retention and reduce anxiety.
Disappointing grades often stem from executive function challenges rather than a lack of effort or motivation in students with ADHD.
Constructive communication about academic performance fosters a supportive environment, helping children feel safe to discuss their struggles.
Deep dives
Understanding Disappointing Grades
Disappointing grades in students, particularly those with ADHD, often do not reflect their true capabilities or effort. Many children desire to do well but struggle with execution, such as turning in assignments or studying effectively. Instead of labeling these students as lazy or unmotivated, it is essential to recognize that issues often stem from difficulties in executive function skills and not from a lack of desire. This disconnect can lead to a negative cycle where poor grades result in lowered self-esteem, further reducing motivation and creating a self-perpetuating loop of academic struggles.
The Role of Executive Function Skills
Executive function skills, such as organization, time management, and task initiation, are critical for academic success yet can pose significant challenges for students with ADHD. These skills help students keep track of their assignments and prioritize tasks, but many struggle to develop them adequately. Without a solid organizational system, students may miss deadlines or fail to turn in completed work, leading to compounded academic difficulties. Supporting children in building these skills through structured guidance and systems allows them to better manage their academic responsibilities.
Effective Study Strategies
Implementing effective study strategies can greatly enhance learning and retention for students with ADHD. Techniques such as distributed practice, where study sessions are broken into smaller segments over time, can improve long-term memory and reduce anxiety before exams. Additionally, self-testing and active review methods help students gain a more accurate understanding of their knowledge versus simply rereading materials. Reinforcing these strategies not only aids in comprehension but also builds students’ confidence in their abilities, fostering a more positive relationship with learning.
Communicating about Academic Challenges
Open and constructive communication about grades and academic performance can help strengthen the parent-child relationship and encourage a more supportive learning environment. Approaching conversations with an understanding tone, using phrases like 'I've noticed' rather than accusatory statements, can foster collaboration instead of defensiveness. Parents should focus on creating a space where their child feels comfortable discussing their struggles and does not feel threatened or judged. Building a team-oriented mindset allows both parties to explore solutions together rather than perpetuating a cycle of negativity and frustration.
Bad grades may not fairly reflect your child’s effort, motivation, or potential. Ann Dolin, M.Ed., shares ways to investigate why it’s happening and the two most common reasons for poor grades, plus conversation starters for talking with your child.
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