The Tim Ferriss Show #125: Derek Sivers on Developing Confidence, Finding Happiness, and Saying "No" to Millions
Circus Beginnings
- Derek Sivers' circus clown career began with a gig at a pig show.
- This led to a 10-year stint, teaching him valuable stage experience and confidence.
Performance Focus
- Focus on giving the audience what they want, not on self-consciousness.
- Recognize that performances are for the audience, not for self-validation.
Confidence Boost
- Tarleton's compliments boosted Sivers' self-esteem, changing his posture and confidence.
- She emphasized his positive qualities and potential, helping him internalize a confident mindset.
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