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Happy Place

Paul Merson

Sep 27, 2021
Former footballer Paul Merson shares his story of gambling addiction, discussing its role as escapism and the importance of understanding addiction as an illness. He reflects on the impact of his book and emphasizes the need for self-compassion and treatment. The chapter explores recovery as a lifelong journey and the challenges of finding happiness without addiction. They discuss the fear and challenges of compulsive gambling, the element of self-punishment, and the importance of self-acceptance. They also touch upon the normalization of addiction and express gratitude for the guest's openness.
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  • Understanding addiction as an illness, not a reflection of one's character.
  • The importance of empathy and support from others who have experienced addiction.

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Accepting Illness and Seeking Recovery

Former footballer Paul Merson opens up about his personal journey with addiction to alcohol, drugs, and gambling. He emphasizes the importance of accepting that he is ill and not a bad person, and the ongoing effort to get well. He highlights the struggle of compulsive gambling and the difficulties in understanding and empathizing with this addiction. He shares his experience of writing a book to help others who may be going through similar challenges. He also discusses the importance of self-reflection, self-compassion, and understanding the difference between being unwell and being a bad person.

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