The Angry Therapist Podcast The New Epidemic - She’s Touched Out. He Wants More Sex
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May 16, 2025 This discussion unveils the evolving dynamics of intimacy in modern relationships. Celibacy emerges as a surprising tool for self-discovery. The speakers tackle the complexities of love languages and genuine actions versus societal pressures. Humor blends with introspection as they explore domestic chores' unseen motivations. Addressing emotional expectations and past experiences, they emphasize open communication. The interplay of sex and emotional safety highlights the delicate balance between desire and connection, making for an engaging conversation.
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Different Intimacy Needs
- John Kim and Vanessa express different ways they value and engage with physical connection in relationship.
- Vanessa feels panic when intimacy is scheduled into her busy day due to difficulty dropping out of work mode.
Creativity vs. Responsibility
- John views life as ongoing creative expression interrupted by chores and obligations.
- Vanessa feels her creativity and play came second to responsibility in upbringing, evoking some jealousy.
John's Celibacy Journey
- John shares his personal experience with a 30-day celibacy experiment.
- He explores sexual energy without ejaculation to understand changes in his desires and channel that energy.
