New Mindset, Who Dis? 739 - What it means to be truly "desired" by someone
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Sep 29, 2025 Explore a fresh take on what it means to be truly desired versus merely wanted. Discover why curiosity is the key to deep desire and how it reflects our worth in someone’s life. Learn the limitations of shallow attention and how small daily gestures can reveal genuine interest. Delve into the signs that show a partner deeply cares, like attentive listening and meaningful follow-ups. Uncover how desire can adapt and flourish even through conflicts, sustaining intimacy over time.
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Desire As Everlasting Curiosity
- Desire is the pull to keep exploring someone long after the obvious is revealed.
- True desire is curiosity that drives continual discovery of another person.
Being Desired Validates Your Existence
- Being desired confirms you matter in someone else's life and interrupts their routine.
- Hunger to discover more about you signals worth and invites ongoing attention.
Don't Mistake Attention For Desire
- Attention, validation, and possession often masquerade as desire but are distinct.
- Attention can vanish, validation can serve ego, and possession springs from fear not true desire.
