TED Talks Daily How couples can sustain a strong sexual connection for a lifetime | Emily Nagoski
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Sep 24, 2019 
Emily Nagoski, a renowned sex educator, shares her expertise on maintaining a strong sexual connection in long-term relationships. She discusses surprising research about why some couples thrive sexually while others struggle. Interpersonal communication and understanding each other’s needs are crucial, she emphasizes. Nagoski also highlights the importance of post-sex intimacy and a strong friendship, likening emotional challenges to 'sleepy hedgehogs' that require gentle attention. Her insights provide practical strategies for rekindling passion and fostering lasting intimacy.
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Sustaining Sexual Connection
- Build a strong friendship based on trust with your partner.
- Prioritize sex and create protected space for intimacy.
Responsive Desire
- Spontaneous desire isn't the only normal form of sexual desire.
- Responsive desire emerges in anticipation of or in response to pleasure.
The Party Analogy
- Imagine your best friend invites you to a party; you might hesitate at first.
- Showing up and engaging can lead to enjoyment, just like with intimacy.