
 The School of Greatness
 The School of Greatness 5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Relationship EP 1122
 Jun 11, 2021 
 In this insightful discussion, psychotherapist Esther Perel analyzes the changing dynamics of modern relationships. Best-selling author DeVon Franklin dismantles common marriage myths, while therapist Lori Gottlieb emphasizes the power of rewriting personal narratives to accept love. Pastor Michael Todd shares tips for building strong foundations in relationships. Finally, Matthew Hussey focuses on becoming a more desirable partner by fostering personal growth and enhancing relational attributes. Tune in for valuable insights on love and connection! 
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Relationship Complexity
- Modern relationships are more complex due to evolving roles and expectations.
- Traditional societies had fixed rules, while modern ones require constant negotiation.
Managing Expectations
- Calibrate and diversify your expectations in relationships, avoiding the pressure of one person fulfilling everything.
- Engage in novel activities to maintain intensity and excitement.
The Marriage Myth
- The belief that love alone heals all is a myth; marriage requires consistent work.
- Marriage is not the peak but the base camp of a challenging climb.












