Sex With Emily

How to Know If You're Actually Having an Orgasm

Dec 2, 2025
Dive into the fascinating world of orgasms as the host reveals the physiological magic happening in your body. Discover the four stages of orgasm and learn how clitoral anatomy plays a crucial role in pleasure. Explore the intriguing concept of dry orgasms and the effectiveness of hands-free techniques like tantric breathing. And if you've ever dealt with a partner's jackhammer approach, get tips on how to communicate your needs effectively. It's a deep and enlightening journey into intimacy and connection!
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INSIGHT

What An Orgasm Actually Is

  • An orgasm is rhythmic pelvic floor and genital muscle contractions driven by nerve, bloodflow, and brain interaction.
  • It’s essentially a pleasurable muscle spasm that requires coordinated arousal and sustained stimulation.
ADVICE

Use The Four-Stage Orgasm Roadmap

  • Follow the four stages: desire, arousal/plateau, orgasm, and post-orgasm recovery.
  • Use sustained stimulation through those stages to reach orgasm and enjoy the hormonal afterglow.
INSIGHT

Clitoris Is Extensive And Highly Sensitive

  • The clitoris has about 12,000 nerve endings and extends internally, making it the primary pleasure organ for many vulva owners.
  • It can be stimulated externally or indirectly (pubic mound, labia, anal pressure) to trigger strong arousal.
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