The Collaborative Problem-Solving Process

To address explosive behavior effectively, parents must identify and prioritize the unsolved problems their child faces. This involves a thoughtful process of gathering information from the child about their difficulties in meeting certain expectations, as well as outlining the consequences of those unmet expectations. An example provided is the case of a father who learned that his daughter was facing a unique challenge with tooth brushing, which was not resolved by simply changing toothpaste flavors. By engaging in a collaborative discussion, they determined a practical solution that addressed both of their concerns, showcasing the effectiveness of proactive problem-solving in enhancing parent-child relationships.