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2046: 3 Pitfalls that Make Us Feel Like We’re Failing Motherhood by Emma Scheib with Erica Layne.co

Jan 26, 2024
10:16
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Emma Scheib, a mother navigating the challenges of parenting, discusses the pitfalls of feeling like a failure in motherhood. She explores the dangers of comparison, unrealistic expectations, and redefining success. The key message is that love for our children is what truly matters.
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Quick takeaways

  • Comparing ourselves to other moms leads to feelings of inadequacy, but embracing our love for our children can help alleviate the guilt.
  • Obsessing over arbitrary markers of success, such as whether our children finish their meals, can create undue pressure; prioritizing our kids' well-being and love for them is more important.

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Pitfall #1: Comparison

Feeling like a failure as a mom often stems from comparing ourselves to other moms. Unconsciously, we gauge our own performance against theirs, leading to a sense of inadequacy. However, by realizing that we don't have to be perfect and acknowledging that our love for our children is what truly matters, we can let go of the guilt and embrace our best efforts.

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