The Daily Stoic Every Great Leader Has THIS Secret Weapon | Les Snead (Los Angeles Rams GM)
Les Snead, General Manager of the Los Angeles Rams and a seasoned NFL executive, shares his insights on leadership and team culture. He introduces the concept of 'panic rules'—principles to maintain clarity during chaos. Snead emphasizes the importance of mentoring, patience in career advancement, and the notion that growth can't be rushed. They discuss the legacy of helping others succeed and the role of reading in shaping leadership. With clever anecdotes and thought-provoking ideas, Snead reveals how great coaches simplify principles for players under pressure.
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Use Simple Panic Rules
- Create short, clear "panic rules" to follow during chaos so decisions remain simple.
- Revert to these flat, non-negotiable rules when overwhelmed to avoid bad, rushed choices.
Do The Thing You're Paid For
- When overwhelmed, focus on the most basic part of your job and execute it well.
- Doing the simple, assigned task excellently grounds you and preserves effectiveness under pressure.
Prefer Caution When Unsure
- Choosing caution under doubt creates a habit of thoughtful decisions rather than reactive ones.
- Les Snead prefers false negatives over false positives when uncertainty is high to avoid bad precedents.
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00:00 • 4min
Introducing Panic Rules
04:04 • 6min
Coaches Teach Simple Principles
10:02 • 2min
Les's GM Panic Rules
11:59 • 1min
When in Doubt, Don't Act
13:08 • 2min
Developing Staff and Patience
15:02 • 6min
You Can't Microwave Life
21:27 • 5min
How You Do Anything Is How You Do Everything
26:40 • 16sec
Handling Assistant Interviews
26:56 • 3min
Legacy: Helping Others Succeed
30:10 • 3min
Document and Improve the System
33:30 • 2min
Ad break
35:19 • 2min
Books That Inform Leadership
37:35 • 8min
You Can't Fix People, Manage Around Them
45:24 • 2min
Task Lists and Cultural Fit
47:03 • 58sec
Antifragile Moves vs. Job Security
48:01 • 7min
Curating a Reading Culture
54:50 • 1min
End-of-Career Reflections
56:09 • 23sec
Outro
56:32 • 3min
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The difference between panic and power comes down to a few simple rules. In today’s episode, Ryan dives into Les Snead’s philosophy on “panic rules” and why it’s stuck with him ever since they first talked. Ryan and Les discuss how these rules help leaders stay calm under pressure, make hard decisions, and mentor the next generation. Then, they wrap up the conversation at The Painted Porch, where Ryan shares some book recommendations with Les and his wife Kara.
Les Snead is an American football executive who is the general manager of the Los Angeles Rams of the National Football League. Snead played tight end for Auburn from 1992-93 and was part of the Tigers’ perfect 11-0 team in 1993. He also earned Southeast Region Academic All-American honors during his college career. Prior to joining the Rams, Snead spent 13 seasons with the Atlanta Falcons.
📚 Full list of books that Ryan gave to Les and Kara:
Slow Productivity by Cal Newport
Letters to a Young Athlete by Chris Bosh
It’s Better To Be Feared by Seth Wickersham
The Way of the Champion by Paul Rabil
Levels of the Game by John McPhee
Plato and The Tyrant by James Romm
The Second Mountain by David Brooks
From Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks
On Character by General Stanley McChrystal
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