The Kink Consultant Biohacking Your Orgasm with Susan Bratton
Jan 8, 2026
Susan Bratton, intimacy expert and founder of Better Lover, shares how pleasure and desire can grow with age. She explores power exchange, kink dynamics, and how trust and embodiment deepen connection. They discuss sexual longevity tools like nitric oxide, pumping, red light therapy, and topical care. The conversation is candid, permission-filled, and focused on reclaiming confidence and curiosity in sex.
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Power Exchange Extends Beyond The Bedroom
- Power exchange in relationships depends heavily on everyday interactions, not just bedroom roles.
- Building confidence and removing shame enables partners to step into dominant or submissive roles safely.
Focus On Desired Feeling, Not Just Kink
- Ask what feeling a kink creates rather than chasing its surface mechanics.
- Translate the desired feeling (surrender, safety, power) into alternative actions your partner can accept.
Aim For Flow State In Play
- Practice switching energy roles and aim for a sexual flow state where dominance and submission move naturally.
- Develop competence and confidence so scenes feel loving instead of performative.