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Jay shares that he chose to become a monk due to the emotional mastery he observed in monks, where they could convert negative emotions into positive energy. He admired their dedication to service beyond themselves, embodying the quote by Emerson about planting trees under whose shade they do not plan to sit. Despite the challenging decision to leave his established path and embark on the monkhood journey, Jay felt drawn to seeking self-awareness and learning foundational lessons.
Jay discusses the role of ego in achieving success, noting that while it can drive individuals towards greatness in business or sports, it ultimately leads to their downfall. He emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between confidence and ego, highlighting that ego-driven success can be short-lived and detrimental in the long run. Jay encourages acknowledging the contributions of others and appreciating the unique journeys and qualities of individuals.
Reflecting on the importance of contrast in life, Jay explains how exposure to diverse experiences and perspectives can expand horizons and promote growth. He discusses the significance of embracing differences rather than striving for comparisons, noting that contrast can inspire individuals to learn and improve while celebrating the uniqueness of each person's journey.
Jay shares the challenging decision to transition from being a monk, citing reasons such as the communal and disciplined lifestyle conflicting with his independent nature. Reflecting on the physical toll and desire to share his learnings with others outside the monastery, Jay felt a deep sense of purpose and accountability towards helping those who may benefit from his insights. Despite facing judgment and uncertainty, he chose authenticity and a path aligned with his inner calling.
When setting goals, it's crucial to align them with your authentic self. Research shows that goals tied to genuine personal values stand a higher chance of being achieved. Avoid falling into the trap of pursuing goals influenced by external expectations or societal norms. Choose objectives that resonate with your true desires to boost motivation and increase the likelihood of success.
Many individuals end up setting goals based on 'shoulds' influenced by others' opinions or societal pressures. To enhance goal achievement, it's essential to break free from these external influences. Instead of pursuing objectives to meet external expectations, focus on goals that genuinely matter to you and align with your values and aspirations.
Authenticity and self-trust play a vital role in goal attainment. Prioritize setting objectives that resonate with your authentic self rather than pursuing goals to please others or conform to societal standards. By listening to your inner values and desires, you increase the chances of accomplishing goals that hold true meaning and fulfillment for you.
Engage in mindful reflection to evaluate your current goals and understand whether they reflect your authentic self. Consider whether your objectives stem from internal motivations or external influences. By aligning your aspirations with your true values and aspirations, you pave the way for more meaningful and successful goal achievement.
If you are at a crossroad and can't seem to decide what to do next, then this episode is for you.
When you're stuck and are still trying to find your purpose, you're in the right place.
I am so excited to share with you the conversation I had with Anas Bukhash, a Dubai native motivational speaker. He is a notable figure in the UAE's entrepreneurial and motivational landscape.
It is truly enlightening when a conversation doesn't just focus on finding love and how to be in service to others, but also touches on how we can rise from making bad choices in life.
Anas has laid out some of the most challenging yet motivating questions where I talk about why we shouldn't pass along the generational trauma we picked up from our parents and the good and bad side of our ego. Yes, ego can be beneficial when we learn to acknowledge that success is a team effort.
On to the topic of my personal journey, I open up about how I dealt with loss and grief, the pivots I had made that completely changed the trajectory of my life, and overcoming the adversaries that came with it.
What's the biggest lesson I've learned to this day? The truth that happiness can't be forced. It comes naturally when you know how to love yourself by staying healthy.
Today, you will learn:
- How to live a life of purpose
- The important choices we make that greatly impacts our goals
- How to deal with the loss of a loved one or friend
- The level of emotional mastery we need to develop
- How to use ego to your advantage
- The truth about generational trauma
- The real definition of genuine love
Don't miss this life changing conversation that revolves around personal growth, healing, and making better life choices.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
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