Better Sex

341: Liberating the full orgasm reflex with Rob Kancler

Nov 17, 2025
In this enlightening chat, Rob Kancler, a body-based coach and teacher, delves into the world of erotic circuitry and emotional regulation. He explains how breathwork can transform intimacy, particularly through the powerful "Yes Breath" technique. The conversation highlights the importance of body intelligence in unlocking orgasmic potential and the role emotions play in our sexual experiences. Rob emphasizes that everyone can enhance their sexual health naturally, offering practical tips to reconnect with the body and improve intimate relationships.
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INSIGHT

Erotic Circuitry Restores Natural Flow

  • Rob Kancler explains erotic circuitry as breath, somatics, and movement that restore how bodies are designed to function.
  • These practices open blocked energy so sexual charge can flow through the whole body instead of getting stuck in the genitals.
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Breathing Patterns Shape Emotion

  • Chronic fear-based breathing trains the diaphragm into shallow, chest-only respiration that increases anxiety.
  • Rest-and-digest breathing must be relearned to improve emotional regulation and sexual capacity.
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Physiology Underlies Psychology

  • Cranial nerves (esp. the vagus) and respiration underpin social engagement and mental health.
  • Dysfunctional physiology can present as psychological issues; fixing the body changes cognition and behavior.
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