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Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry

Best of: We're Talking to Teens the Wrong Way About Their Mental Health

Dec 27, 2024
Teens today face a harsh landscape of mental health messages. Candid discussions reveal how societal language can incorrectly frame stress and anxiety. Normalization of these feelings is critical for emotional resilience. Parents are urged to engage in supportive, open dialogues with their teens. Seasonal self-care practices are highlighted, urging wellness amidst holiday chaos. Rethinking school anxiety management is essential, emphasizing coping skills over predictability. The focus is on building a culture of healthy emotional communication at home.
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Quick takeaways

  • Using pathologizing language about stress can hinder teens' ability to cope and develop resilience in facing challenges.
  • Normalizing emotional experiences and having open conversations about stress can empower adolescents to navigate life's complexities more effectively.

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The Harmful Effects of Pathologizing Language

Using pathologizing language when discussing stress with teenagers can lead to negative consequences for their mental health. When young people are told they should not experience certain emotions or are diagnosed at an early age, it may hinder their ability to manage the challenges they face. Conversations about feelings should normalize anxiety as a natural response to stressors, rather than labeling it as a mental health issue that requires medication. For example, as shared in the episode, Michelle Obama reinforced the idea that it is appropriate for adolescents to feel anxious about tests or school projects, and such feelings should be acknowledged rather than dismissed.

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