Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry

Lynn Lyons LICSW, Robin Hutson
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Oct 31, 2025 • 1h

From Gentle Parenting to FAFO Parenting - Which Schools of Thought Make You A Better Mom Or Dad?

Parenting “styles” are all the rage. Gentle, eggshell, snowplow, concierge…and more! Robin and Lynn wade into the jargon, the benefits, and—of course—the ridiculous. WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS. Here is our first: Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here⁠ For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy. Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.   WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE! We will select two listeners who complete our ⁠⁠listener survey⁠⁠. We hope it is you! FOLLOW US Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids. Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram. Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Oct 24, 2025 • 36min

How To Handle The Child That Says “This Is Not Worry!”

Lynn is big on families knowing how worry and anxiety work. If we’re going to ask kids and parents to take an approach that is the OPPOSITE of what feels comfortable, they need to understand the rationale. But what happens when — despite explaining and externalizing and talking to worry— a child insists it is NOT worry? What are parents to do with explosions and refusal and demands about bedtime or school attendance or separating when their efforts to address the anxiety are met with: “Nope! That’s not what’s happening!” WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS. Here is our first: Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here⁠ For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy. Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.   WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE! We will select two listeners who complete our ⁠⁠listener survey⁠⁠. We hope it is you! FOLLOW US Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids. Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram. Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Oct 17, 2025 • 42min

What To Do When Your Kid Wants to Stay Home: School Avoidance 101 for Parents

What happens when your child wants to stay home from school? The hosts discuss recognizing early signs of school avoidance and how the pandemic has shifted attitudes around attendance. They explore whether consequences for missing school are effective, highlighting anxiety and learning issues as common root causes. Practical strategies include structuring the home environment to discourage avoidance and keeping social activities intact. Plus, they emphasize the importance of teamwork between parents and schools to address these challenges early.
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Oct 10, 2025 • 31min

Why Kids Who Contribute Do Better Emotionally and Socially

The research is clear: when children (and adults) contribute in a useful way, their confidence, autonomy, and self-efficacy improve. Mood gets better, too, which is why volunteering helps with depression. Do your kids contribute? We’ll talk about how to make it happen…and what gets in the way. WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS. Here is our first: Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here⁠ For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy. Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.   WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE! We will select two listeners who complete our ⁠⁠listener survey⁠⁠. We hope it is you! FOLLOW US Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids. Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram. Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Oct 3, 2025 • 29min

How To Teach Your Child To Handle Frustration

Explore how to boost your child's frustration tolerance, tackling listener concerns about rigidity and emotional skills. Learn practical strategies like movement and breaks to manage frustration effectively. Discover phrases to replace 'You can handle it!' to disrupt worry. Lynn emphasizes the importance of modeling emotional resilience and making skills learnable through practice. This engaging discussion highlights real-life scenarios and encourages parents to embrace their own reactions while guiding their children through challenges.
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Sep 26, 2025 • 47min

Sounding the Alarm On Smartphones and the Impact On Kids With Dr. Jean Twenge

Join Dr. Jean Twenge, a psychology professor and author of '10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World,' as she dishes about the alarming effects of smartphones on teens. She shares compelling data linking device use to rising depression and emphasizes the crucial role of limiting phone access in bedrooms for better sleep and mental health. Dr. Twenge also advocates for delaying smartphone ownership until teens reach driving age and discusses the benefits of school phone bans for focus and discipline. Parents, this one's packed with practical advice!
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Sep 19, 2025 • 31min

Concrete Reminders About Avoidance and Accommodation

Parents consistently ask Lynn for the language to use with their children and teens when the family is moving away from avoidance and accommodation. In this episode, Lynn provides a list of four key phrases and conversation starters that help navigate a shift into action. WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS. Here is our first: Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here⁠ For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy. Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.   WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE! We will select two listeners who complete our ⁠⁠listener survey⁠⁠. We hope it is you! FOLLOW US Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids. Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram. Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Sep 12, 2025 • 37min

Why Manners and Social Awareness Are Important In A Disconnected World

Manners and social skills are important for some basic reasons: we want our children to learn how to move through the world with decency and respect. But in this episode, Robin and Lynn go deeper, talking about manners and etiquette as a potential bridge to kindness and connection. Oh, and there’s some crying. WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS. Here is our first: Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here⁠ For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy. Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.   WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE! We will select two listeners who complete our ⁠⁠listener survey⁠⁠. We hope it is you! FOLLOW US Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids. Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram. Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Sep 5, 2025 • 49min

In Session: I Want My 13-Year-Old Out of My Bed!

A mother grapples with her 13-year-old daughter's dependence on co-sleeping, fueled by ADHD and anxiety. They explore navigating bedtime dynamics, the impact of social anxiety, and effective strategies to foster independence. The discussion emphasizes the importance of therapy, breathing exercises, and the balance between support and boundaries. It also touches on the complexities of managing sleep, screen time, and teaching valuable life skills like financial management. Empowering teens to confront their fears while promoting autonomy takes center stage.
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Aug 29, 2025 • 34min

How "Productive Struggle" Helps Decrease Anxiety and Depression

The importance of 'productive struggle' in child development takes center stage, showcasing how overcoming challenges fosters resilience and essential skills. The discussion highlights the distinction between productive struggle and trauma, urging parents to support their children's growth by not overprotecting them. Practical tips for nurturing this critical skill are shared, alongside insights into managing social discomfort and the transformative power of embracing difficulties in learning. Embracing struggle is framed as a foundational aspect of nurturing confidence in children.

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