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The Fourth Draft

Jan 21, 2026
Rosie shares her journey of rewriting a book proposal four times, confronting the exhaustion of rejection. She reveals how fear often masked itself as discouragement, steering her towards quitting. Mindfulness emerges as a powerful tool, allowing her to recognize and thank her fears without letting them control her path. Through perseverance, the fourth proposal transformed into a real project. Ultimately, Rosie reflects on the lessons learned: fear as data, the value of persistence, and the importance of gratitude for past failures.
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ANECDOTE

Four Proposals, One Hard Send

  • Rosie describes writing four book proposals for her second book and feeling exhausted by the process.
  • She almost didn't send the fourth proposal because fear told her to quit, but she sent it anyway.
INSIGHT

Fear Is A Dramatic Storyteller

  • Rosie identifies fear as a storyteller that constructs worst-case narratives and catastrophizes setbacks.
  • She points out that fear often masquerades as protection while it actually keeps us small.
ADVICE

Acknowledge Fear, Then Act

  • Rosie uses mindfulness to notice fear and separate from its narrative instead of reacting automatically.
  • She describes acknowledging fear and then choosing to act, exemplified by hitting send on the proposal.
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