Squiggly Careers #478 Five assertiveness watch outs (and what to do instead)
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May 6, 2025 Dive into the nuances of assertiveness with insights on recognizing common pitfalls. Learn about over-explaining, over-apologizing, and the importance of balancing energy in conversations. Discover the power of 'I' statements and how to direct discussions more effectively. The speakers share personal anecdotes and practical strategies to foster authentic connections in communication. Plus, explore the significance of empathy and genuine expression to ensure your message resonates.
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Assertiveness Is Communication-Wide
- Assertiveness is more than just speaking; it applies across all forms of communication, including emails and presentations.
- Clarity and confidence in any communication form mark true assertiveness, not just vocal presence in meetings.
Helen's Energy Overload
- Helen Tupper's biggest assertiveness watchout is energy overload, where her enthusiasm can overwhelm others.
- This sometimes causes disengagement, making her presence feel like 'too much' to new acquaintances.
Sarah's Too Much Talking
- Sarah Ellis's assertiveness challenge is talking too much, especially when nervous or in new situations.
- Over-talking can reduce assertiveness by limiting listening and clouding the actual message.
