How to Age Up

Best of “How To”: Make Small Talk

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Dec 30, 2024
Ty Tashiro, a social scientist and author of "Awkward," dives into the intriguing world of small talk and social anxiety. He discusses practical strategies for overcoming barriers to conversation, especially in everyday settings like hair salons. Personal anecdotes reveal the balance between light banter and meaningful exchanges. The importance of genuine curiosity in initiating dialogue shines through as Tashiro emphasizes how small talk can pave the way for deeper connections, despite its inherent awkwardness.
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INSIGHT

Uncertainty in Small Talk

  • Small talk can be challenging when the relationship's future is uncertain.
  • Regular interaction without clear direction can create awkwardness.
ANECDOTE

Mimi's Small Talk Aversion

  • Mimi Craft dislikes surface-level small talk and prefers deeper conversations.
  • She gives an example of boring small talk: "Oh, it's cold out? Yeah, it's cold out."
ANECDOTE

Erin's Conversational Approach

  • Erin DeRosa shared how conversations can naturally lead to deeper topics.
  • She gave an example of discussing family leading to questions about religious upbringing.
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