The Dr. Hyman Show

How To Have Successful Relationships with Esther Perel

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Dec 30, 2021
Esther Perel, an internationally renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author, shares her insights on modern relationships and the soaring expectations that accompany them. She discusses the intricate dynamics that shape intimacy, emphasizing the roles childhood experiences play in adult partnerships. A unique card game designed to foster connection and vulnerability is introduced, showcasing the power of storytelling in relationships. The conversation also touches on the health impacts of relationship status, encouraging listeners to explore deeper connections and communication.
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INSIGHT

High Expectations in Modern Love

  • Modern romantic relationships carry unprecedented expectations.
  • We want one person to fulfill roles an entire village once did.
INSIGHT

Childhood's Impact on Adult Relationships

  • Childhood experiences, like getting too much or too little attention, affect adult relationships.
  • Romantic relationships and relationships with parental figures often mirror each other.
ANECDOTE

Invisible Complementarity

  • Esther Perel describes a couple where one partner needs constant input, while the other is very independent.
  • This illustrates how people seek partners who complement their own, sometimes unresolved, issues.
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