The Greg McKeown Podcast

122. The Greatest Breakthrough in Psychology in 50 Years with Professor C. Terry Warner (Part 1)

Aug 16, 2022
Professor C. Terry Warner, an esteemed psychology expert and author of "Bonds That Make Us Free," delves into groundbreaking insights about interpersonal relationships. He reveals why we often feel trapped in frustrating dynamics and offers refreshing perspectives on conflict resolution through empathy. Warner challenges traditional models, emphasizing personal responsibility and the importance of trust. He also explores the nuances of self-deception and highlights the necessity of genuine human encounters for deeper emotional understanding.
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ADVICE

Emphasize Understanding Over Formulas

  • Focus on fostering understanding and empathy between people in conflict.
  • Avoid prescribed models or interventions, as they oversimplify complex interpersonal issues.
INSIGHT

Misnomer "Conflict Resolution"

  • The term "conflict resolution" misrepresents the nature of conflict.
  • It implies a transactional approach, neglecting the individuals' responsibility for the situation.
ANECDOTE

Accidental Resolution

  • C. Terry Warner's experience suggests that trusted conflict resolvers often emerge through existing relationships.
  • These individuals bridge conflicted parties through established trust and friendships, not formal techniques.
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