Not Enough Hours in the Day? 5 Reasons Why You're Overcommitted and Overwhelmed
Feb 26, 2024
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Dive into the reasons behind feeling overcommitted and overwhelmed. Explore setting boundaries, managing relationships, and regaining control for a balanced life.
Seeking external validation can lead to overcommitment and burnout.
Fear of missing out (FOMO) may drive excessive commitments; prioritize choices aligned with long-term goals.
Deep dives
Seeking Validation Leads to Overcommitment
Many individuals overcommit because they seek validation through being needed by others, equating being needed with self-worth. This desire for external validation can result in saying yes to more projects or favors than feasible, leading to overwhelm and burnout. Recognizing that self-worth is not solely based on how much one does for others is crucial in setting boundaries and aligning commitments with personal values and well-being.
Fear of Missing Out Drives Overcommitment
The fear of missing out (FOMO) can push individuals to take on excessive commitments out of the worry of losing out on opportunities. This fear stems from a scarcity mindset and the belief that saying no closes doors to future chances. Understanding that it is impossible to seize every opportunity and prioritizing choices aligned with long-term goals can help combat FOMO and guide intentional decision-making to prevent overcommitment.
Avoiding Relationship Damage Spurs Overcommitment
The fear of damaging relationships can lead to overcommitment as individuals prioritize harmony and avoid conflict by saying yes to every request. Balancing relationships and commitments requires effective communication to set clear boundaries while showing support and care. Being honest about limitations and offering alternative forms of support can help maintain relationships while preventing overcommitment and preserving personal well-being.
Ever feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day to get everything done? When you overcommit yourself and run into overwhelm, it can feel bleak. But there’s hope: this week, we’re diving into the root cause of WHY you take on too much, so you can avoid falling into the pit of overcommitment again in the future.