884 Successful Women Leaders on Mental Toughness and Building Confidence
Dec 4, 2019
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In this podcast, successful women leaders share their journeys of overcoming fear and building confidence. They discuss embracing discomfort as a teacher and reframing failure. The episode features inspirational stories from Elizabeth Gilbert, Rachel Hollis, Sarah Blakely, Glennon Doyle, Mel Robbins, and Lisa Nichols.
Embrace discomfort to learn from pain, anxiety, and envy for personal growth.
Take decisive actions to reframe failure as stepping stones towards success.
Utilize the 5-4-3-2-1 rule to interrupt negative patterns and enhance productivity.
Deep dives
Characteristics of Successful Women Leaders
Successful women leaders like Rachel Hollis, Sarah Blakely, Mel Robbins, Glennon Doyle, Liz Gilbert, and Lisa Nichols have shown resilience in overcoming extreme obstacles to achieve success. Despite challenges such as divorce, multiple businesses, or childhood hardships, these leaders have risen to the top through actions, impacting many by leading with love and inspiring others to dream, learn, and grow.
Reframing Failure and Taking Action
Rachel Hollis shares the importance of reframing failure as not trying rather than the outcome itself, instilling a mindset of continuous growth. She emphasizes the necessity of taking action, both big and small, to transform one's life and move beyond mere contemplation. This philosophy encourages individuals to embrace failure as part of the journey towards success and to initiate change through decisive actions.
Empowering Women to Pursue Passion and Curiosity
Sarah Blakely's story exemplifies the determination and dedication required to achieve success, surpassing challenges in the face of uncertainty. Blakely's persistence in overcoming obstacles and seizing opportunities highlights the value of being willing to creatively risk failure and step outside conventional boundaries. By fostering a culture that encourages innovation and embraces curiosity, individuals can redefine their paths and create meaningful impacts in their lives and the world.
The Power of the 5-4-3-2-1 Rule
The 5-4-3-2-1 rule serves as a powerful tool to interrupt negative patterns and engage the brain in creating positive change. It helps individuals overcome procrastination, build confidence, and enhance relationships. By shifting focus from overthinking to taking action, this method empowers individuals to control their thoughts and behaviors, leading to improved decision-making and increased productivity.
Embracing Pain and Transformative Growth
Facing pain and discomfort can be transformative, enabling individuals to confront fears and inner struggles. By reframing pain as a teacher rather than a burden to be avoided, individuals can unlock personal growth and resilience. Embracing vulnerability and discomfort fosters self-reflection, learning, and the cultivation of inner strength, ultimately leading to profound self-discovery and empowerment.
USE YOUR PAIN AS AN ARROW. None of us like to feel unpleasant emotions. Whether it’s pain, anxiety, or stress, we numb them with food, alcohol, and overscheduling. But there’s a lot we can learn from discomfort. Instead of drowning your feelings, get curious about them. Your envy can lead you to your passion. Your anxiety can show you your authentic self. And your pain might be asking you to comfort something in your past that is keeping you from your future. Unless we embrace where we’re from, we’ll never get where we’re going. On today’s episode of The School of Greatness, I talk with some of the most inspirational women on the planet: Elizabeth Gilbert, Rachel Hollis, Sarah Blakely, Glennon Doyle, Mel Robbins, and Lisa Nichols. Elizabeth Gilbert is the author of Eat, Pray, Love. Rachel Hollis is the bestselling author of Girl, Wash Your Face. Sarah Blakely is the founder and CEO of the massively popular women’s apparel brand SPANX. Mel Robbins is the author of the 5-Second Rule. Glennon Doyle is the creator of the online community Momastery. Lisa Nichols is a bestselling author and motivational speaker. These women share their experiences in overcoming limitations from their past to become the powerhouses they are today. Like Elizabeth Gilbert says in this episode, if your only goal is to be at the very top, you’re going to be disappointed. So get ready to learn from these vulnerable, powerful women on Episode 884.
Some Questions I Ask:
How do you follow your passion? (11:18)
What’s the biggest challenge for moms? (16:30)
How did Oprah help you succeed? (25:00)
How has the 5-4-3-2-1 rule helped you the most? (32:00)
In This Episode You Will Learn:
The danger of only wanting to be on top (10:00)
Jackhammers vs. Hummingbirds (14:00)
What causes anxiety (19:00)
How Sarah went above and beyond for Spanx (24:00)
How Sarah’s dad encouraged her to fail (28:00)
About the 5-4-3-2-1 rule (29:00)
About the transformative yoga class Glennon Doyle took (37:00)
How suffering is a choice, and what we can learn from pain (39:00)
Why it’s important to be non-negotiable (48:00)
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