Speaking of Psychology

What makes love last? With Arthur Aron, PhD

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Feb 9, 2022
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INSIGHT

Enduring Love Shows Up In The Brain

  • Long-term intense romantic love is real and reported by a substantial minority of long-married couples.
  • Brain scans of these couples show activation in reward and pair-bonding areas similar to new lovers.
ADVICE

Fix Yourself To Help The Relationship

  • If you have anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem, seek therapy or treatment to improve relationship wellbeing.
  • Reframe partner compliments and consider why they said them to accept positive regard.
ADVICE

Be Responsive And Share To Build Closeness

  • Reveal personal thoughts and feelings to give your partner opportunities to be responsive and show you care.
  • Practice active responsiveness: hear, understand, verify, and care about your partner's communications.
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