Exploring the differences between coaching and therapy, including their origins and training. Contrasting the holistic approach of coaching with talk therapy in psychotherapy. Emphasizing the importance of seeking therapy for mental illness or trauma, while suggesting coaching for issues like burnout or relationship struggles. Exploring the historical roots of therapy and coaching, and the variations in training between therapists and coaches. Highlighting the collaborative and active nature of coaching, focusing on goal-setting and belief in the client's potential.
Coaching and therapy have distinct roles: therapy is essential for healing and recovery, while coaching helps improve functioning and address specific problems.
The origins of therapy can be traced to medicine, while coaching emerged more recently, influenced by personal development and sports coaching.
Deep dives
The Differences Between Coaching and Therapy
Coaching and therapy are often confused, so it is important to understand their distinctions. While both involve one-on-one conversations focused on the client's life, coaching is a newer field and less familiar to many people. A helpful distinction is comparing a coach to a team coach on a sports team and a therapist to a team doctor or physical therapist. Both play essential roles, but they excel at different things. A therapist is essential when you are injured or recovering, just as a team doctor is crucial when an athlete is hurt. In contrast, a coach is there to help when you are already functioning well, but want to address specific problems or improve further. Coaching is collaborative and intentional, with an emphasis on goal-setting and forward progress. While therapy may involve delving into past experiences, coaching tends to focus on the present and future, offering an active and participatory process for clients. It is crucial to note that coaching is not a substitute for therapy in cases of mental illness or serious trauma, where specialized and sensitive care is needed.
Origins and Training in Coaching and Therapy
The origins of therapy can be traced to medicine, with many early therapists being doctors. Therapy often involves diagnosing and treating disorders, and the field is linked to the medical world. On the other hand, coaching emerged more recently in the 1980s and 1990s, influenced by personal development and sports coaching. While therapists typically require specific degrees and go through supervised hours, coaching has no mandatory educational requirements. However, there are voluntary coaching credentials provided by organizations like the International Coach Federation (ICF). The training in coaching focuses on ethics, essential hours of instruction, supervision, and coaching experience. While there is diversity and criticism within the coaching field, credentials and education alone do not guarantee a better practitioner. It is important to find a coach with whom you resonate and who has a track record of helping others.
How Coaching Differs in Session Experience
Coaching sessions tend to be more active and collaborative, with an emphasis on intentional goal-setting and progress. The client and coach work together like collaborators on an art project. Coaching sessions involve an active coach who shares insights, asks probing questions, and provides possibilities for development. The client is encouraged to participate actively, both in session and through personalized homework assignments tailored to their capacity. Coaching is focused on the present and future, making it well-suited for those who feel stagnant, exhausted, or yearn for more in various aspects of their lives. While therapy sessions can also involve goals and activities, coaching tends to have a stronger expectation of implementation and a proactive approach toward change.
The "Past-Focused Therapy, Present-Future-Focused Coaching" Distinction
There is a common distinction that therapy is focused on the past, while coaching is focused on the present or future. While there is some truth to this, it is not an absolute distinction. Therapy does often delve into past experiences and patterns, but coaching also considers the client's past as a reference point without extensive analysis. Coaching is primarily concerned with the present and future, but therapists might also address these aspects. It is crucial not to oversimplify this distinction, as therapy encompasses a wide range of approaches and topics. Other distinctions, such as the collaborative nature of coaching and the emphasis on intentional goal-setting, provide a more comprehensive understanding of the differences between coaching and therapy.
One of the most common questions I hear from potential clients is: "What’s the difference between coaching and therapy?"
In this episode, I answer that question in a few ways:
+ I share my favorite metaphor about the differences between the fields.
+ I talk more about the origins of the fields, differences in training, and also how it can feel different when you are actually in the sessions themselves.
+ I also share one difference between coaching and therapy that I often hear, but don’t totally agree with.
You’ll walk away from this episode with a better understanding of what kinds of challenges are best served by therapy, what are best served by coaching, and how to decide if you need a therapist or a coach.