Conversations with Dr. Jennifer Modesty (Unscripted!)
Jan 14, 2025
Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, dives into the complexities of modesty and sexuality. She discusses how cultural misunderstandings shape perceptions of modesty and emphasizes mutual responsibility between genders. The conversation highlights the significance of teaching children about their sexuality in a positive light, promoting self-respect, and personal expression. Together, they explore the joys and challenges of raising daughters and the importance of fostering open communication about body positivity and individuality.
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Defining Modesty
- Modesty, culturally emphasized through clothing, reflects humility and refraining from boasting about strengths or assets.
- It also helps manage the private aspects of our lives, like sexuality, by regulating access to our bodies.
Modesty's Bad Rap
- Modesty has a bad rap due to the focus on women managing men's sexuality through their clothing.
- This can lead to women feeling ashamed or responsible if violated.
Teaching Young People
- Teach young men that sexuality is normal and their responsibility to manage.
- Teach young women that their attractiveness is good but shouldn't be used for manipulation.