

Mulling Over: Decentering Men
Feb 19, 2025
Dive into a humorous journey of self-centering and personal identity. Explore how to redefine relationships beyond traditional norms while embracing self-love. Discover the emotional complexities of grief and the importance of intersectionality amidst societal shifts. Engage in discussions about reclaiming hobbies as true expressions of self, and challenge patriarchal expectations. Join the conversation on forming connections with a focus on community and inclusivity, encouraging everyone to rethink gender narratives.
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Centering vs. Decentering
- Centering something means mistaking the method for the goal, like thinking men are the only path to love.
- Decentering separates the two, recognizing methods like alcohol or men as separate from love or connection.
Decentering as Weaning
- Socially prescribed behaviors are like pills; decentering requires weaning off, not cold turkey.
- Escaping oppressive systems takes ongoing effort, not just leaving a location.
Sobriety and Friendship
- Sarah Schauer shares her experience with sobriety, where losing friends was an initial hurdle.
- Connecting with those who share your centered behavior may diminish as you decenter.