Meik Wiking, CEO of the Happiness Research Institute, discusses finding happiness in the present, the impact of language on happiness, the connection between freedom and happiness, and the Danish concept of "hygge." They also explore how social media affects our ability to enjoy moments and the importance of finding happiness through small acts.
Finding happiness in the present moment is important and shouldn't be overshadowed by constantly striving for a future state of happiness.
Freedom and the ability to make choices contribute to happiness, and countries with higher levels of freedom tend to have happier citizens.
Deep dives
Happiness is not limited to the future
We tend to anticipate a happier future and often overlook the happiness we can experience in the present. Mike Viking, CEO of the Happiness Research Institute, emphasizes the importance of finding happiness in the present moment rather than constantly striving for a future state of happiness. While it is good to have optimism for the future, we should not neglect the happiness that is available to us right now.
Fundamental aspects of happiness
According to Mike Viking, there are fundamental aspects of happiness that are universal among people. We all seek happiness in our personal relationships, meaningful work, and a balance between pursuing our interests and spending time with loved ones. While there are cultural and individual differences, the desire for happiness is a shared human experience that unites us.
The importance of freedom and happiness
Freedom plays a significant role in happiness. Having the ability to make choices, pursue personal goals, and experience a sense of autonomy contributes to well-being. Countries with higher levels of freedom tend to have higher levels of happiness among their citizens. However, it's crucial to acknowledge that external circumstances, such as civil unrest or personal struggles, can impact happiness beyond an individual's control.
Huga and the art of creating happiness
Huga, the Danish concept of coziness and well-being, offers a valuable perspective on creating happiness. By embracing simple pleasures like lighting candles, enjoying delicious food, and creating a warm atmosphere in our homes, we can enhance our daily happiness. Huga reminds us to prioritize relaxation, comfort, and connection, and to find joy in the present moment.
Some elements of happiness are circumstantial – where we’re born, and our biology – but there are many elements that we personally have control over. Meik Wiking is the CEO of the Happiness Research Institute, based in Denmark, and he feels we’d all be happier if we focused more on the smaller choices we can control. That, he explains, is where the Danish art of hygge comes in.
In this chat with Fearne, Meik explores why policy makers would do well to consider the happiness of their country as an important element of national health – happy citizens are more likely to earn more, less likely need the health service, and more likely to perform random acts of kindness.
Meik’s books, The Little Book of Hygge, The Little Book of Lykke, and The Art of Making Memories are all out now.
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