The Heart Tongue Technique That Changes Everything"

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Oct 14, 2025

Susan Bratton, a renowned sex educator and author, shares groundbreaking insights on improving orgasmic intercourse. She reveals that misunderstandings, not physical limitations, often hinder pleasure. Discover the transformative "Heart Tongue" technique, which refocuses intimacy. Susan discusses the importance of slowing down and the unique anatomy that enhances arousal. Plus, she offers tips on positioning and practices like yoni massage to maximize sensitivity. This enlightening conversation reshapes how we approach pleasure in partnerships.

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INSIGHT

Sex Is Misunderstood, Not Broken

Sex education and cultural myths left people misinformed about orgasm and arousal differences.
Susan Bratton argues orgasmic intercourse is a learned skill, not a broken body issue.

ADVICE

Treat Foreplay As Full Sex

Slow down and reframe "foreplay" as equally important, extended sexual practice.
Use kissing, full-body touch, nipple and yoni massage, and oral play to awaken more pleasure.

INSIGHT

Arousal Needs A Runway

Female arousal needs broader, slower blood engorgement across many tissues compared to male quick penile response.
Rushing to penetration reduces sensory surface area and weakens orgasmic signaling.

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