Beautifully Complex 293: Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), with Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D.
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Dec 19, 2024 Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D., is the founder of At Peace Parents and a mother to a son with Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). In this insightful discussion, she explains the complexities of PDA, emphasizing the need for tailored parenting strategies. Listeners learn how to balance guidance with respect for their child's autonomy, fostering a supportive environment. Casey shares actionable tips for reducing stress and enhancing resilience, while also reassuring parents that societal judgments shouldn't overshadow their instincts. Discover a path to understanding and connection.
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PDA Definition
- Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is characterized by a survival drive for autonomy.
- This drive can override basic needs like eating, sleeping, and safety.
Campfire Incident
- Dr. Ehrlich's son, Cooper, demonstrated PDA traits by being drawn to a campfire despite warnings.
- His need for autonomy overrode his safety instincts.
Traditional Parenting and PDA
- Traditional parenting methods can escalate PDA behaviors.
- These methods often increase the child's perception of lost autonomy.