The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Moment 207: CIA Spy Reveals How To Read Anyone Like A Book!
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Apr 4, 2025 
Andrew Bustamante, a former covert CIA officer, reveals how spy tactics can enhance everyday life. He discusses the art of manipulation and motivation, emphasizing ethical considerations in business. Bustamante uncovers core human motivations and the importance of understanding public, private, and secret lives. He shares techniques like emotional mirroring to control conversations and create deeper connections. Tune in for insights that could help you read anyone like a book and improve your interpersonal skills!
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Manipulation and Motivation
- Learn to manipulate others, but more importantly, recognize how others manipulate you.
- Understanding manipulation is crucial for navigating business and life effectively.
How To Lie Effectively
- Good liars talk less and ask more questions than bad liars who over-explain.
- Mimic others to build trust, then push your lies.
Body Language and Lying
- Body language is crucial, especially in lying.
- Skilled liars align body language with words while unskilled liars show discrepancies, betraying discomfort.