I Feel That Way Too

Am I Supposed To Sleep With One Person For The Rest Of My Life?

Jun 24, 2025
Jessica Fern, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional and author of "Polysecure," dives into the complexities of love and commitment. She discusses navigating desires in relationships and challenges traditional notions of monogamy. Jessica emphasizes the emotional turmoil of balancing attachment and freedom in polyamory. The conversation highlights the importance of self-discovery, creating safe spaces, and embracing personal desires. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship dynamics and pursue authentic connections.
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ANECDOTE

Post-Wedding Doubts

  • Michelle MiJung Kim shared waking up after her wedding with doubts and asking for a divorce plan in three years.
  • She questioned lifelong monogamy, wondering if she should sleep with one person forever.
INSIGHT

Longevity Isn't True Success

  • Society overemphasizes longevity as the only metric for relationship success.
  • People change more today, and being together lifelong needs luck, not just effort.
ANECDOTE

Opening Marriage After Years

  • Michelle proposed opening their marriage, which initially felt like betrayal to Amrit.
  • They spent years negotiating and emotionally processing before trying an open relationship.
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