On Purpose with Jay Shetty Jay & Radhi Talk About Icks vs. Red Flags (How to ACTUALLY Know the Difference)
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Nov 22, 2025 
Join Jay Shetty and Radhi Devlukia, a frequent co-host and relationship enthusiast, as they hilariously delve into the world of "icks"—those oddly specific turn-offs we all experience. They explore what defines an ick versus a true red flag, share personal anecdotes that will have you chuckling, and discuss how to communicate these quirks honestly. Along the way, they tackle topics like confidence versus arrogance and reveal the deeper issues lurking behind our icks. It's an insightful yet light-hearted take on dating and relationships!
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What An Ick Really Means
- The term "ick" names sudden, often irrational turnoffs that kill attraction instantly.
- Jay Shetty and Radhi Devlukia note icks vary culturally and personally but follow common patterns.
Baby Voice Caused Early Friction
- Radhi shares her early ick: Jay's "baby voice" with his mum and sister made her uncomfortable.
- Jay stopped doing it and the dynamic shifted from ick to tolerance.
Icks As Scapegoats
- People often overvalue trivial icks and undervalue relationship fundamentals like communication.
- Jay warns icks can be used as scapegoats to avoid admitting lack of attraction.