How to Make Your Own Luck (Update)

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Jul 9, 2025

Maria Konnikova, a renowned author and psychologist, shares her transformation from a poker novice to a pro, emphasizing the blend of skill and luck in both poker and life. She discusses the importance of mentorship in mastering complex strategies and how personal experiences shape decision-making. The conversation explores the role of deception in negotiations and the impact of gender dynamics in competitive environments. With insights from game theory, Konnikova reveals how playing poker can illuminate critical lessons about self-control and navigating life's uncertainties.

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Poker as Life Metaphor

Maria Konnikova was a poker novice who didn't know the number of cards in a deck.
She found poker to be a powerful metaphor for life and decision-making under uncertainty.

INSIGHT

Locus of Control Balance

Most people take credit for success but blame outside forces for failure.
Balancing internal and external locus of control is crucial for realistic self-assessment.

ANECDOTE

Choosing a Poker Coach

Maria chose Eric Seidel as her poker coach because of his longevity and psychological approach.
Seidel's old-school style matched her strengths and helped her learn effectively.

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