On Purpose with Jay Shetty Jillian Turecki: 3 Biggest Dating Mistakes You’re Making (Stop Chasing Love That’s Not For You)
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Feb 24, 2025 
Join relationship coach Jillian Turecki, a seasoned expert in romantic dynamics, as she uncovers the biggest mistakes in dating. She reveals the pitfalls of over-relying on dating apps and explores the fear of rejection's impact on attraction. Jillian discusses why we often chase the wrong people while ignoring those who genuinely care. Dive into the importance of self-worth, how to repair trust after dishonesty, and practical self-reflection exercises to foster healthier relationships. This conversation is a roadmap to break unhealthy cycles in love.
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Dating: Biggest Mistakes
- Expand your social circle and engage in activities beyond dating apps.
- Be proactive, go on dates with low expectations, and view them as opportunities to improve social skills.
False Intimacy
- Avoid long texting exchanges before meeting; they create a false sense of intimacy.
- Text briefly and arrange a quick meeting (FaceTime, Zoom, or in-person).
Fear of Rejection
- Fear of rejection hinders dating; it involves fearing both not being chosen and having to reject.
- Rejection can be a fear of the other person not liking you, or you not liking them.
