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Nedra Glover Tawwab on How to Set Boundaries

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Sep 3, 2021
Nedra Glover Tawwab, a New York Times bestselling author and licensed therapist, dives deep into the world of boundaries. She explains how vital they are for healthy relationships and self-esteem. Listeners learn the spectrum of boundaries, from porous to rigid, and the importance of flexibility. Nedra emphasizes the three key steps to set boundaries: be clear, be direct, and confront discomfort. She also tackles the emotional turmoil that often accompanies boundary-setting, especially when facing guilt or during breakups, highlighting that prioritizing oneself is essential for well-being.
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ADVICE

Defining Boundaries

  • Define boundaries as what you need to feel comfortable in relationships and life.
  • These can include saying no, making requests, accepting help, or changing situations.
INSIGHT

Identify Boundary Needs

  • Areas where you complain most likely need firmer boundaries.
  • Address recurring annoyances to improve well-being.
ADVICE

Early Boundary Setting

  • Set boundaries early in relationships to avoid resentment.
  • Starting with boundaries is easier than fixing long-standing issues.
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