Women of Impact Brooklyn Beckham, Narcissism & YOU: What Your Family Drama Reveals About Your Deepest Attachments with Thais Gibson | Lisa Bilyeu Live
Jan 23, 2026
Thais Gibson, a relationship and attachment expert, dives into the complex world of attachment styles and personal growth. She unpacks real-life family drama, including the Brooklyn Beckham controversy. Listeners learn how to identify their own attachment traits and the differences between narcissism and avoidant behavior. Thais shares practical steps to rewire attachment styles, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and self-soothing. Get ready for an engaging discussion that could change your relationship dynamics for the better!
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Attachment Styles And Childhood Origins
- Attachment theory describes four styles: secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant with distinct childhood origins.
- Understanding these origins helps explain adult relationship patterns and predictable triggers.
Core Triggers Differ By Style
- Anxious people fear abandonment while dismissive avoidants fear shame and being engulfed.
- Fearful avoidants combine both fears and often oscillate between seeking and fleeing closeness.
Meet Anxious Needs With Certainty
- Anxious people need validation, predictability, and reinforcement to feel safe in relationships.
- If you’re anxious, prioritize learning self-soothing so you rely less on others for regulation.
