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The Art of Manliness

No, There Isn’t a Loneliness Epidemic (And That May Be an Even Bigger Problem)

Mar 11, 2025
Derek Thompson, a staff writer at The Atlantic and author of "The Anti-Social Century," dives into the paradox of rising aloneness without a loneliness epidemic. He discusses the cultural and technological shifts contributing to this phenomenon, such as the 'convenience curse' and the rise of sedentary leisure among young men. Derek also challenges misconceptions about introversion, highlighting that even introverts often thrive through socializing. He emphasizes the importance of strengthening our social connections and offers practical tips for re-engagement.
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  • The decline in face-to-face socializing among Americans, especially young adults and unmarried men, reflects significant cultural shifts affecting interpersonal interactions.
  • Despite increased aloneness, many individuals report satisfaction with solitude, suggesting a disconnect between social frequency and feelings of loneliness.

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The Decline of Socialization

In recent decades, Americans have significantly reduced the amount of time spent socializing face-to-face, with a decline exceeding 20% nationwide. This trend is markedly pronounced among certain demographics, such as young adults and unwed men, where the decline approaches 40%. For instance, teenagers have halved their frequency of meeting friends outside school hours since the early 1990s. This startling decrease reflects substantial cultural shifts in how Americans interact and engage with one another.

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