141 Healing From Trauma: The Power of “Being With” Part 1
Sep 4, 2023
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Curt Thompson discusses healing from trauma through storytelling and empathy. He shares the story of Cora, who struggles with emotional disconnection. Topics include the transformative power of suffering, accepting love, confessional communities, co-regulation in therapy, and healing through support in story groups.
Healing from trauma requires empathetic witnessing of our stories.
Suffering can deepen bonds and relationships, fostering empathy and understanding.
Deep dives
Defining Suffering as Isolation and Powerlessness
Suffering originates from pain but transforms due to isolation and powerlessness. The ability to project pain into the future, coupled with the inability to alleviate it, intensifies suffering. Our temporal perception influences suffering, shifting focus from gratitude and hope to regret and anxiety.
Transforming Suffering Through Relationships
Suffering can lead to transformation within relationships, bringing connection, love, and care. Sharing suffering within a community shifts perspective and deepens bonds, fostering understanding and empathy. Embracing suffering as a means to deepen connections and experience love alters perceptions and leads to personal growth.
Receiving Love to Overcome Powerlessness
In overcoming isolation and powerlessness in suffering, one must embrace receiving love through relationships. The comfort and love of God are channeled through human connections, necessitating openness to receive love. Being receptive to love entails vulnerability and allowing others to support and care during times of suffering.
Healing Trauma Through Relationships and Vulnerability
Past traumas often result in emotional disconnection, requiring a shift towards emotional openness and vulnerability. Developing co-regulation capacities facilitates emotional resilience, aiding in healing past wounds. Encouraging openness about internal emotions and fostering relational interactions promote healing and transformation.
Curt Thompson returns to the podcast to talk about how we heal from trauma. In short, trauma and emotional pain begin to heal when our stories are witnessed by an empathetic other. Curt shares a story from his newest book about a woman named Cora, who is disconnected from her emotions and finds it very hard to receive care from Curt. Curt’s newest book about suffering and healing is called The Deepest Place.