Dr. Kurt Gray, a Professor at the University of North Carolina, dives into the art of teaching kids strong values while respecting differing opinions. He discusses the importance of empathy in moral development and offers practical strategies for navigating moral dilemmas. The conversation emphasizes open dialogue over judgment, especially in discussions about complex issues like bullying. Gray also highlights how fostering independence in teens can enhance their moral growth, blending individual beliefs with understanding broader perspectives.
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Harm and Morality
Perceptions of harm drive moral judgments.
We condemn behaviors perceived as harmful, leading to disagreements on what constitutes harm.
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Uber Ride Conversation
Kurt Gray engaged in a conversation with an Uber driver about Christian nationalism.
The driver made a disrespectful comparison, but Gray's prior listening allowed for respectful correction.
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CIV for Civil Conversations
Connect, invite, and validate (CIV) for civil conversations.
Connect personally, invite others to share, and validate their feelings without necessarily agreeing.
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Why We Fight About Morality and Politics and How to Find Common Ground
Kurt Gray
In 'Outraged,' Kurt Gray presents groundbreaking research showing that liberals and conservatives share the same moral mind, with moral judgments stemming from feelings of threat or vulnerability to harm. Gray argues against the 'destruction narrative' and explains how early human instincts and modern social media contribute to moral outrage. He offers practical insights and tools for understanding and bridging the gaps between different moral worldviews, promoting more peaceful interactions in polarized times.
How do we teach our kids to hold strong to their values while respecting those who think differently? In this episode, Dr. Kurt Gray joins us to explore the delicate balance of instilling moral convictions in our children without fostering judgment. We dive into the research behind moral development, the importance of empathy, and practical strategies to help kids navigate a world of differing opinions.
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