105 - Building Resilience and Finding Resonance: How to Embrace Life's Chaos
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Feb 13, 2025
Explore the inspiring journey of resilience through a celebrated quarterback's ups and downs. Discover how embracing failures can fuel personal growth in sports and life. Delve into the tension between our quest for control and the joy found in unquantifiable experiences. Learn about the impact of technology on performance, and how devices can both help and hinder our enjoyment of activities. Finally, find out how to balance metrics with mindful enjoyment in pursuits like running and strength training.
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Jalen Hurts' Resilience
Jalen Hurts faced setbacks, like being benched in a national championship game and losing a Super Bowl.
Despite this, he persevered, demonstrating resilience and ultimately winning a Super Bowl.
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Persistence and Imagination
True persistence combines energy with imagination, seeking new solutions when approaches fail.
This restless energy fuels resilience and helps one overcome obstacles in pursuit of goals.
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Control vs. Resonance
Modern life emphasizes control, but true meaning (resonance) comes from uncontrolled moments.
Technology, while helpful for objective performance, can hinder this resonance if overused.
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In this book, Hartmut Rosa argues that modern society's relentless pursuit of control and predictability has led to a distorted relationship with the world. Rosa posits that the most profound connections arise from embracing the unpredictable and uncontrollable nature of life, which he terms 'resonance'. He examines how this concept affects various aspects of human life, including family, work, politics, and religion, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and preserving the inherent uncontrollability of the world[1][3][4].
Smarter Faster Better
The Secrets of Being Productive in Life and Business
Charles Duhigg
In 'Smarter Faster Better', Charles Duhigg explores the science of productivity through eight key concepts, including motivation, goal setting, focus, and decision making. The book uses real-world examples from various fields such as the Marine Corps, Google, and Disney to illustrate how productive individuals and organizations view the world and make choices differently. Duhigg combines neuroscience, psychology, and behavioral economics to provide practical advice on how to become more effective and in control of one's life and work.
Why We Drive
Toward a Philosophy of the Open Road
Matthew Crawford
In 'Why We Drive,' Matthew B. Crawford blends philosophy and hands-on storytelling to explore the significance of driving in human life. The book delves into Crawford's own experiences restoring a vintage Volkswagen and his journeys through various automotive subcultures. It is a meditation on the competence of ordinary people, the rewards of 'folk engineering,' and the existential value of driving. Crawford argues against the trend of self-driving cars, highlighting the importance of human agency and the battle for democratic self-determination against surveillance capitalists. The book is a celebration of the human spirit and the freedom associated with driving[1][4][5].
Two topics for you today. On the back of the Super Bowl, Brad shares a message of resilience inspired by Eagles' quarterback Jalen Hurts. Then, a discussion, inspired in part by Hartmut Rosa's book "The Uncontrollability of the World," about the role of technology in helping us achieve peak performance and live a meaningful life. How can we use devices in such a way that they aid our objective performance without becoming so obsessed with control that we lose touch with our subjective experience? How do we know when the tools we're using are helping, and when they're hurting, the pursuit of our goals?
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