excellence, actually
Steve Magness, Brad Stulberg, & Clay Skipper
"excellence, actually" is a podcast from The Growth Equation, hosted by Steve Magness, Brad Stulberg, and Clay Skipper. Drawing on their years of working and corresponding with Olympians, coaches, executives, world-class physicians, and other elite-level achievers in their coaching practice and professional careers, they give you the mental and physical tools, practices, habits, and frameworks used by the best in the world in the pursuit of excellence. Each episode will give you concrete ideas and tips to use in your life immediately to help you become more meaningfully engaged in the pursuits that support your goals and your values. This is not the performative nonsense that is peddled online by grifters and influencers, but the evidence-based systems that work for the best in the world. This is excellence, actually. (This podcast used to appear under the name FAREWELL.) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jul 24, 2025 • 38min
How to Avoid the Achievement Trap and Find Lasting Fulfillment
Discover the trap of chasing achievements for fulfillment and why it often leads to disappointment. Hear insights from golf's #1 Scottie Scheffler on redefining success and finding joy in the journey. The conversation shifts focus from traditional accolades to the importance of personal identity and relationships. Explore the contrast between intrinsic and extrinsic motivations through inspiring stories, highlighting how real satisfaction lies in the process rather than the end goal. Embrace a new perspective on what true fulfillment means.
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Jul 17, 2025 • 33min
The Art of Doing Hard Things: Meaningful Challenge vs. Useless Suffering
Dive into the fascinating distinction between genuine hardship and the superficial challenges often glamorized on social media. Discover the concept of 'Zombie burnout' and its effects on resilience. Explore how embracing discomfort can lead to personal growth, and learn about the 'moat of low status' that holds many back. The discussion also highlights the dual nature of challenges in parenting and self-care. With insights from pioneering stress research, find out how purpose can transform difficulties into meaningful pursuits.
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Jul 10, 2025 • 44min
Balance is a Myth: How to Build Healthy Obsession
The conversation challenges the notion that balance is achievable or even desirable in health and wellness. It explores how healthy obsession can drive excellence in pursuits like sports and art. Listeners learn about the importance of daily non-negotiables and establishing support systems to avoid burnout. The idea of dynamic balance is introduced, emphasizing flexibility and regular adjustments in pursuit of goals. Tips and actionable strategies for nurturing constructive obsession while staying motivated and fulfilled are also shared.
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Jul 3, 2025 • 41min
How to Build a Meaningful Identity in a Status-Driven World
Explore the battle between comparison and joy in a status-driven world. Discover the difference between being known and being recognized, which can reshape your identity. Learn how to forge meaningful connections that nurture your true self rather than chasing superficial validation. Delve into the complexities of social media's impact on self-worth, and uncover the importance of aligning your values with your achievements. Finally, embrace personal growth over competition for a more fulfilling journey.
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Jun 26, 2025 • 48min
How to Be Excellent, Actually
Hosts explore the true essence of excellence, emphasizing mental and physical balance. They critique unrealistic self-improvement trends and offer three key mindset shifts for genuine growth. The conversation highlights the importance of engaging with meaningful pursuits and staying aligned with personal values. They discuss the balance between control and flexibility in performance preparation, showcasing how resilience trumps rigidity. Listeners are encouraged to embrace psychological flexibility and accept mediocrity as a stepping stone on their journey to excellence.
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Jun 19, 2025 • 48min
How to Take Better Breaks: Mastering Rest & Recovery
The hosts explore the transformative power of breaks for personal growth and creativity. They discuss how rest, both micro and macro, plays a crucial role in sustainable productivity. By addressing the guilt and anxiety around taking breaks, they encourage a mindset shift towards prioritizing recovery. Listeners learn about ultradian rhythms and the importance of integrating rest into daily life for enhanced performance. Additionally, they introduce an exciting new community platform aimed at boosting excellence.
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Jun 12, 2025 • 49min
How to Know When to Grit vs. When to Quit
Discover the art of knowing when to push through and when to let go. The discussion reveals how endurance sports can illuminate life choices, emphasizing self-awareness and risk assessment. Gain insight into the nuanced difference between quitting and failing, and learn strategies for resilience, including maintaining a 'next play mentality.' Explore the importance of recognizing burnout and utilizing 'strategic laziness' to focus your energy. Personal anecdotes and mountain climbing metaphors further enrich this exploration of grit and decision-making.
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Jun 5, 2025 • 41min
9 Important Life Lessons We've Learned from Exercise
Exercise teaches valuable life lessons beyond physical fitness. Discover how to stay patient and manage anxiety during challenges. Embrace curiosity to transform fear into resilience while tackling personal goals. Learn the importance of pushing past limits for growth, using real-life experiences with discomfort. Strategies for relaxation and confidence are highlighted, emphasizing that consistent effort leads to success over time. Ultimately, it's all about leveraging momentum and intuition to flourish in all aspects of life.
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May 29, 2025 • 37min
120 - A 66-Year-Old Powerlifter with 71 World Records on the Secrets to Long-Term Success (with David Ricks)
David Ricks, a 66-year-old powerlifter, boasts 71 world records and shares his wisdom on achieving long-term success. He discusses the importance of setting realistic goals and listening to one’s body while maintaining a healthy relationship with sport. Ricks highlights the unique challenges older athletes face, using the iceberg metaphor to illustrate the need for proper nutrition and recovery. He also emphasizes emotional resilience in training and the significance of balancing life commitments with powerlifting.
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May 22, 2025 • 45min
119 - How to Turn Your Inner Critic Into a Coach
Dive into the fascinating world of self-talk and discover how to transform your inner critic into a supportive coach. Explore the neuroscience behind self-dialogue and its impact on mental health. Learn practical strategies for reframing negative thoughts and managing setbacks, drawing inspiration from sports coaching techniques. The discussion also tackles the negative influences of social media on self-perception, emphasizing mindfulness in shaping your inner voice. Tune in for actionable insights to boost your confidence and promote personal growth!
