Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

178: What's it like to have non-ejaculatory orgasms as a man? (ft. Cam Fraser)

Nov 12, 2021

In this engaging discussion, Cam Fraser, Australia's leading sex coach for men, dives into the fascinating world of non-ejaculatory orgasms. He shares insights on overcoming erectile dysfunction and the powerful practice of semen retention. Cam explains how mastering ejaculation can enhance intimacy in relationships and boost confidence in dating. His transformative journey emphasizes the importance of understanding masculinity, personal growth, and exploring new methods of self-pleasure for improved sexual experiences.

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Quick takeaways

Non-ejaculatory orgasms can enhance sexual mastery, allowing for more profound pleasure and deeper connections with partners and oneself.

The speaker's personal journey through body awareness and emotional breakthroughs illustrates the importance of overcoming performance anxiety in sexual relationships.

Promoting comprehensive sexual education is essential to replace harmful narratives with healthier perspectives and to encourage safe sexual practices.

Deep dives

The Impact of Sexual Education

Sexual education is crucial for healthy sexual expression, especially in environments where sexual shame prevails. The speaker reflects on experiences with a conservative Christian community that promoted guilt and repression around sexuality, leading many young people to engage in unsafe sexual practices. This lack of education created confusion and unhealthy relationships, manifesting in behaviors such as stalking and emotional abuse. Ultimately, this realization instigated a deep understanding of the necessity for comprehensive sexual education, aiming to replace harmful narratives with healthier, more informed perspectives.

Intro

5min

Redefining Masculinity and Sexuality

30min

Exploring Personal Spirituality and Wellness Practices

1min

Redefining Men's Self-Pleasure

17min

Embracing Cold for Sexual Mastery: A Bold Approach

2min

The Importance of Embracing Sexual Identity for Personal Growth

3min

Exploring Sexual Mastery and Consciousness

6min

In the world of advanced sexual mastery for men, the non-ejaculatory orgasm (aka "energetic orgasm" or "full-body orgasm") looms large. In this episode, Cam Fraser, Australia's leading sex coach for men, gets into the details around this. Because if this kind of sexual mastery is interesting to you as a penis-owner, you may wonder: How do you actually get there? What do you have to develop (and how) in order to be able to come without actually ejaculating? And what does this kind of mastery have to do with how good you are in bed? The answer might surprise you. Other topics we cover here: semen retention, what it was like for Cam to overcome his own experience with erectile dysfunction/premature ejaculation, how he got on the personal growth path, and what it means for sex with a partner when you take ejaculation off the table. Hint: it can be great in both dating and relationships.

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