

178: What's it like to have non-ejaculatory orgasms as a man? (ft. Cam Fraser)
Nov 12, 2021
In this engaging discussion, Cam Fraser, Australia's leading sex coach for men, dives into the fascinating world of non-ejaculatory orgasms. He shares insights on overcoming erectile dysfunction and the powerful practice of semen retention. Cam explains how mastering ejaculation can enhance intimacy in relationships and boost confidence in dating. His transformative journey emphasizes the importance of understanding masculinity, personal growth, and exploring new methods of self-pleasure for improved sexual experiences.
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Limited View of Sex
- Cam realized his view of sex was limited, equating it with penis-in-vagina intercourse and ejaculation as the sole measure of success.
- He began exploring non-penetrative sex and ejaculation retention, broadening his understanding of pleasure.
Self-Pleasure vs. Masturbation
- Shift from thinking about "masturbation" to "self-pleasure" to broaden your experience.
- Explore pleasure beyond your genitals; your whole body can be a source of pleasure.
Starting Self-Pleasure
- Stand up, put your phone/computer away, and use your hands to explore your body.
- Start at your genitals, build arousal, then slowly explore other areas, incorporating lube/oil.