The High Performance Podcast

The Secret to Feeling Calm When Out of Your Depth

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Dec 5, 2025
Feeling out of your depth is a universal experience, but staying calm is key. Guests like Tom Aspinall and Petr Čech share insights on naming fears to lessen their hold. The hosts discuss the power of shifting mindsets, emphasizing that fear signifies growth, not failure. They advocate for breaking challenges into manageable steps and accepting discomfort as part of the journey. By embracing small, frequent challenges and normalizing tough conversations, they highlight how to build resilience and confidence in the face of uncertainty.
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ADVICE

Label Your Fear To Shrink It

  • Name your fear by saying it out loud or writing it down to reduce its power.
  • Labeling emotions lets you face and rationalize them so they stop growing in your head.
INSIGHT

Words Diminish Emotional Power

  • Putting feelings into words disrupts the amygdala response and gives you control.
  • Once externalized, emotions become manageable rather than overwhelming.
ANECDOTE

How Conceding Improved Čech's Game

  • Petr Čech described how conceding a goal freed him to play better by removing pressure.
  • He learned to ignore score and outside factors and focus only on doing his job.
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