Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Twice Married, To Each Other

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Apr 28, 2022
A couple's journey through marriage, divorce, and remarriage unfolds with candor and humor. They grapple with everyday tensions over chores and family dynamics, while Esther guides them toward healthier communication. Their struggle with emotional triggers reveals deep-rooted insecurities that impact their relationship. Unique conflict resolution techniques, like lying down during arguments, offer fresh perspectives. Ultimately, their story emphasizes vulnerability and the power of understanding in transforming their bond for the sake of their family.
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ANECDOTE

Twice Married

  • The couple met on MySpace in 2006, initially seeking casual fun.
  • They married in 2008, divorced in 2010, and remarried eight months later.
INSIGHT

Familial Disapproval

  • The husband's family disapproved of the wife due to differences in race, age, culture, religion, and class.
  • This disapproval fueled his defiance, reinforcing his rebellious identity.
INSIGHT

Shared Defiance

  • Both the husband and wife share a similar drive to create their own stories, separate from their families of origin.
  • Esther Perel points out their shared experience of needing to escape oppressive family dynamics.
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