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“You Are A Lot” (an ADHD/AuDHD podcast)

EPISODE 28 “MISUNDERSTOOD”

Aug 12, 2024
Jen, a passionate advocate for ADHD awareness, dives deep into the complexities of living with this neuro-developmental disorder. She discusses the misconceptions surrounding ADHD traits, clarifying that they aren't character flaws but neurological differences. Jen shares personal experiences of being labeled as 'lazy' and 'rude,' and highlights the impact of these labels on self-esteem. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy and educating others on ADHD, fostering understanding and empathy in both social and professional settings.
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  • The pervasive sense of being misunderstood in ADHD individuals deeply affects their self-image and emotional well-being, often leading to internalized negative beliefs.
  • Effective communication and understanding of ADHD behaviors among loved ones can significantly improve relationships and foster empathy towards those experiencing the condition.

Deep dives

The Chronic Feeling of Being Misunderstood

Individuals with ADHD often experience a pervasive sense of being misunderstood that can affect their daily interactions and overall mental well-being. This feeling can arise even before any interactions take place, becoming a part of their identity and impacting their mood and anxiety levels throughout the day. As they navigate through life, this chronic misunderstanding can create a defensive mindset, leading them to anticipate judgment from others. The lack of scientific research on these feelings compels many to rely on anecdotal evidence, such as personal experiences shared on online platforms.

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