All in the Mind Is ‘are you ok?’ a good question and how your eyes give away memory precision
May 13, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Catherine Loveday, a Professor of Cognitive Neuroscience at the University of Westminster, explores the nuances of asking 'Are you okay?' during distressing moments and its potential drawbacks. She reveals intriguing research on how eye movement can indicate memory precision, with implications for early Alzheimer's detection. The conversation also highlights the importance of empathy in healthcare, particularly in supporting mental health recovery, showcasing personal stories that illuminate the transformative power of compassionate care.
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Traumatic Call Experience
- Matt Hayes experienced the traumatic death of a young child while working as an NHS 999 call handler.
- His colleagues showed support but repeated "Are you okay?", which put him on the spot emotionally.
Social Gaze Amplifies Stress
- Being aware of others' gaze during stressful events increases stress and self-questioning.
- Such social evaluation anxiety can compound feelings of helplessness in tragic situations.
Offer Seamless Practical Support
- Provide seamless support that helps without making the person feel evaluated or helpless.
- Practical acts like arranging childcare or offering concrete help are better than asking "Are you okay?"