The Dr. John Delony Show

I Only Feel Loved by My Wife When We Have Sex

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Mar 19, 2025
A husband expresses the need to feel loved outside of intimacy, leading to a compelling conversation about emotional validation. A young couple struggles with parental approval while navigating their relationship, highlighting the complexities of family dynamics. The importance of open communication in marriage is emphasized, especially regarding intimacy and desire. The discussion also touches on unresolved grief, forgiveness, and practical strategies for nurturing emotional well-being, all aimed at building stronger partnerships.
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ADVICE

Beyond Love Languages

  • Reflect on what love looks like in your relationship, rather than focusing on prescribed "love languages".
  • Have vulnerable conversations about your desires and needs, instead of weaponizing love languages.
INSIGHT

Impact of Childhood

  • Childhood experiences, especially a lack of paternal affection, can significantly shape how we give and receive love as adults.
  • Serial monogamy and constantly falling "harder" can be a trauma response to seeking external validation.
ADVICE

True Male Connection

  • Engage in shared activities and pursue common goals with your male friends, rather than just talking about struggles.
  • Be vulnerable and honest with your support system to foster deeper connections and healing.
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